February 2007
It is that time again, New Year’s resolutions, looking back at the last year and seeing what we did and did not accomplish and looking at what we want to create this new year. If one of your New Year’s resolutions is to be dating and even have a date by Valentines Day, then one thing you might want to do, is do something different if what you have been doing hasn’t been working? Here are 10 something different activities that work if you are willing to leave significance at home and add play and possibility--I call them the Attraction Action Plan:
1. Release your cynicism and resignation that you can’t have what you want! Really get that you are the one that creates how your world goes so give up those old ways of being and realize that anything is possible.
2. Write out and I do mean write it out not just think it, what you want your Valentine’ Day to look like! Describe in a visual manner what happens that day and make sure you write it in past tense like it has already happened!
For example: He called at 2pm to confirm our date and told me he can’t wait to see me. I told him the babysitter was set up and he told me he was happy to pay for her and had a surprise for me tonite! After I got home, I immediately got ready and everything went smoothly getting ready! My daughter gave me a big hug and kiss and a Valentine’s day card that she made which I will keep forever. She then happily ran out to play with the neighborhood kids. The babysitter arrived on time and my daughter was happy to see her again. He rang the doorbell and greeted me with a dozen red roses, box of Godiva chocolates and the most wonderful Valentine’s Day Card I have ever received! My heart was melting from the generosity and adoration he displayed. He walked me to the limousine and the driver opened the door where champagne, chocolate covered strawberries and great music were waiting. We cozy up to each other and kissed the entire time on the way to the restaurant—it didn’t even seem like we had been kissing that long—time stood still. He had made reservations at my favorite restaurant and we went all out that night with the food: appetizers, salad, main course, dessert, wine and drinks! We sat close to each other and held hands when we weren’t eating and gave each other smooches from time to time! Our conversations were fun, playful and full of deep intriguing topics that made us feel like we had just transformed the world! After dinner we hopped into our limo where cosmos where were waiting for our next trip to one of my favorite dance clubs. We walked hand in hand and arm in arm all night and we felt like teenagers that couldn’t keep our hands off each other! He is an amazing dancer and we had so much fun dancing to just about every song! He had reserved a “couch” for us to retreat to between dancing breaks. We both felt so comfortable just being quiet and looking into each other’s eyes! At closing time we moved back into the limo and made-out in the limo on the way home. He knew just how to touch me to make me tingle and shudder. At my house, he walks me to the door and holds me tight before giving me an amazing kiss good nite. He told me he had a wonderful night and thanked me for it. He wanted to know when he could see me next and we set up the next date. I felt like a queen and was high from the great evening of adoration!
3. Visualize every day you having this date. Pick a time to do this visualization. Believe you can have it, feel the feelings of having it. Remember that your thoughts and feelings are very powerful so start thinking of the things you want to have in your life!
4. Just who is this fabulous person you will be going out on a date with? Write it all out. Don’t just list their physical stats, write out how they behave, what their personality is like, how they relate to you, what are they like socially and spiritually. What does the person do when you succeed or when you fail? How do they handle money, affection and child rearing?
5. Again visualize every day this person who you will share your life with.
6. Be grateful for what you already have and choose your life like it is now! Stop resisting how your life turned out—like it “should” have turned out another way—give that up, really look at what a great life you have! List out everything in your life that you are grateful for. Read this list daily.
7. Turn yourself ‘On’. Stand up straight, head up high and just start laughing. Keep a pleasant, happy face on and be approachable! What Vibe do you want to project! What do you want others to first notice about you? Be that—turn it on! I call it your ‘Mojo Vibe’ for short (Mojo means Personal Magnetism).
8. Everyday make eye contact, smile and give a happy “Hi” with at least 5 men and 5 women. Whether you are at the grocery or just walking down the hall at work, really play the game of giving those people a part of you that day!
9. Take chances with people that want to engage with you and vice versa! Make that second look, say hi back, linger close by to give them a chance to engage with you, walk by them again, or ask them a question. Remember to always give them your eyes! ?
10. If you don’t get the response you want from someone, just remember ‘Next’! There really are plenty of fish in the sea! Think abundance, abundance, abundance!
It really is as easy as this. Try it out exactly as detailed here for the next 30 days and let me know what happens! I expect to hear amazing stories so please send them to this email address:
janet@mojo-maker.com.
Happy Attracting!
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